本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛这15个问题，归结起来，就是attachment。
1. NEED TO ALWAYS BE RIGHT. ego 总是想区分right and wrong, 并且通过站在虚妄的right的立场，来肯定自身无明虚妄的本质。对于ego来说，承认自己的错误，好像就是判自己死刑。attach to the self pompous righteousness.
2.NEED FOR CONTROL. ego 总是将自我与世界分割看来，并且这个分割孤独的自我是贪婪无度的。通过 need to control, ego会找到存在的感觉和力量。attach to external self pompous power, a power in bubble. This is a awkward energy that is not harmonized with nature. it is a broken dreamed power that is disconnected from true self. Under this fake power, it lies weakness.
3. Blame. to maintain ego's self righteousness and control, 当出现问题的时候，ego 需要blame来维护其存在的合法性，以此来逃避它的责任，继续维持其self righteousness and delusional power. attach to 脸面和其永远的“正确性” to maintain ego's legal position in life. Ego needs a systematic strategy to support its governance of our precious life.
4. SELF-DEFEATING SELF-TALK. 因为ego与reality脱离,所以ego没有真实生命的支撑。这样的ego只能通过对外强权，对内恐吓运转它的本质。attach to ego's internal weakness.
5.LIMITING BELIEFS. ego是固执，有限，无知的。如果ego放弃 LIMITING BELIEFS，它会自我毁灭。但是ego犹如癌细胞，由于其缺乏自知的本性，它热衷于无度的自我繁殖和膨胀。LIMITING BELIEFS is the mind of ego. attach to the ignorance of ego.
6. COMPLAINING. same as BLAME.
7. LUXURY OF CRITICISM, same as 6. 对外，凸显其righteousness， 对内，暴露其weakness.
8. IMPRESS OTHERS, same as 1. By impressing others, ego think it can keep its controlling position. But in reality, the opposite is true， 人们总是想远离这样的人，因为另外一个ego也怕丧失自己存在的价值感. 这就是为什么说ego是虚妄的。
9. RESISTANCE TO CHANGE. change is suicidal for ego。RESISTANCE TO CHANGE is the air for ego. attach to ego's comfort zone.
10. Labels. 因为ego与实际脱离，它只能通过 label 来分割世界，来确定ego的正确性。attach to disconnected external form.
11. FEARS. 因为ego没有truth支撑，它缺乏真实的力量。FEARS 是ego自然的本能反应。attach to ego's illusion.
12. EXCUSES. same as blame, complaining, criticism.
13. PAST. ego never lives in now. it always lives in the past or future. that is why ego is an illusion. attach to ego's dreaming essence.
14. ATTACHMENT. we are not happy because we attach to ego. ego attach to illusion. when bubble is broken, we recognize the darkness. life is indeed suffering.
15. LIVING YOUR LIFE TO OTHER PEOPLE’S EXPECTATIONS. ego has no solid foundation so it can only follow its hidden culture, history and surrounding environment. Ego is conditioned but not grounded. living to other's expectation is natural because ego lives in darkness. Only by finding the light, we can live our own true life. otherwise we only repeat the pattern that has been practiced by the dead.
简单匆忙的读了一下原帖，作以上简单感想，并不全面。谢谢分享。更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
1. NEED TO ALWAYS BE RIGHT. ego 总是想区分right and wrong, 并且通过站在虚妄的right的立场，来肯定自身无明虚妄的本质。对于ego来说，承认自己的错误，好像就是判自己死刑。attach to the self pompous righteousness.
2.NEED FOR CONTROL. ego 总是将自我与世界分割看来，并且这个分割孤独的自我是贪婪无度的。通过 need to control, ego会找到存在的感觉和力量。attach to external self pompous power, a power in bubble. This is a awkward energy that is not harmonized with nature. it is a broken dreamed power that is disconnected from true self. Under this fake power, it lies weakness.
3. Blame. to maintain ego's self righteousness and control, 当出现问题的时候，ego 需要blame来维护其存在的合法性，以此来逃避它的责任，继续维持其self righteousness and delusional power. attach to 脸面和其永远的“正确性” to maintain ego's legal position in life. Ego needs a systematic strategy to support its governance of our precious life.
4. SELF-DEFEATING SELF-TALK. 因为ego与reality脱离,所以ego没有真实生命的支撑。这样的ego只能通过对外强权，对内恐吓运转它的本质。attach to ego's internal weakness.
5.LIMITING BELIEFS. ego是固执，有限，无知的。如果ego放弃 LIMITING BELIEFS，它会自我毁灭。但是ego犹如癌细胞，由于其缺乏自知的本性，它热衷于无度的自我繁殖和膨胀。LIMITING BELIEFS is the mind of ego. attach to the ignorance of ego.
6. COMPLAINING. same as BLAME.
7. LUXURY OF CRITICISM, same as 6. 对外，凸显其righteousness， 对内，暴露其weakness.
8. IMPRESS OTHERS, same as 1. By impressing others, ego think it can keep its controlling position. But in reality, the opposite is true， 人们总是想远离这样的人，因为另外一个ego也怕丧失自己存在的价值感. 这就是为什么说ego是虚妄的。
9. RESISTANCE TO CHANGE. change is suicidal for ego。RESISTANCE TO CHANGE is the air for ego. attach to ego's comfort zone.
10. Labels. 因为ego与实际脱离，它只能通过 label 来分割世界，来确定ego的正确性。attach to disconnected external form.
11. FEARS. 因为ego没有truth支撑，它缺乏真实的力量。FEARS 是ego自然的本能反应。attach to ego's illusion.
12. EXCUSES. same as blame, complaining, criticism.
13. PAST. ego never lives in now. it always lives in the past or future. that is why ego is an illusion. attach to ego's dreaming essence.
14. ATTACHMENT. we are not happy because we attach to ego. ego attach to illusion. when bubble is broken, we recognize the darkness. life is indeed suffering.
15. LIVING YOUR LIFE TO OTHER PEOPLE’S EXPECTATIONS. ego has no solid foundation so it can only follow its hidden culture, history and surrounding environment. Ego is conditioned but not grounded. living to other's expectation is natural because ego lives in darkness. Only by finding the light, we can live our own true life. otherwise we only repeat the pattern that has been practiced by the dead.
简单匆忙的读了一下原帖，作以上简单感想，并不全面。谢谢分享。更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net