本文发表在 rolia.net 枫下论坛Thank you for all the kind friends who response to my post (#397224) and I have a good news to tell you that love really brings out miracle!--My husband get a job in his field just one week after my post!
I used a fake user name to send my previous post and my husband knew I was chatting on rolia. He wanted to read while I was composing but I said I did not want him to read. He is good at computer and visit rolia everyday. I guess he had read my post because I found he looked so upset after he left the computer.
Later I saw he had post some complain about why I just listed his shortcomings. For all the following week, he tried to avoid talking to me or even looking at me. His face looked frozen and serious. I knew he was angry on my post but I pretend nothing happend. I waitted for one week to let him cool down.
Then on the following Sunday, I cried and made a long talk with him telling him what I expect him to do or to be and how I love him....and I can forgive him for everything. At the beginning he still tried not to listen but finally he became feeling well and understood me. After dinner I made a plan for him that from Monday morning, he should get up early and keep 8 hours working on job hunting everyday. He accepted it this time readily and did it initiatively on Monday.
That monday, after he had sent few resume for labour position, he called the company where he worked as a co-op (no pay) after the ESL CO-OP class which I pushed him to attend last autumn. He is disappointed after he finished the co-op work last Nov because the boss didn't give him a chance. In fact he is so afraid of calling out in English but that Monday he called the boss and the boss told him that he intended to give him a chance!
It is a miracle no matter you believe or not ! Love can really bring out miracle! JJMM,Try it!更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net
I used a fake user name to send my previous post and my husband knew I was chatting on rolia. He wanted to read while I was composing but I said I did not want him to read. He is good at computer and visit rolia everyday. I guess he had read my post because I found he looked so upset after he left the computer.
Later I saw he had post some complain about why I just listed his shortcomings. For all the following week, he tried to avoid talking to me or even looking at me. His face looked frozen and serious. I knew he was angry on my post but I pretend nothing happend. I waitted for one week to let him cool down.
Then on the following Sunday, I cried and made a long talk with him telling him what I expect him to do or to be and how I love him....and I can forgive him for everything. At the beginning he still tried not to listen but finally he became feeling well and understood me. After dinner I made a plan for him that from Monday morning, he should get up early and keep 8 hours working on job hunting everyday. He accepted it this time readily and did it initiatively on Monday.
That monday, after he had sent few resume for labour position, he called the company where he worked as a co-op (no pay) after the ESL CO-OP class which I pushed him to attend last autumn. He is disappointed after he finished the co-op work last Nov because the boss didn't give him a chance. In fact he is so afraid of calling out in English but that Monday he called the boss and the boss told him that he intended to give him a chance!
It is a miracle no matter you believe or not ! Love can really bring out miracle! JJMM,Try it!更多精彩文章及讨论，请光临枫下论坛 rolia.net